4 Relationship Locks: Key #1
Be happy for those who are happy
Sukha
Yoga Sutra 1.33
Be happy for those who are happy
Sukha
Yoga Sutra 1.33
Can you believe that there exists 2,000 year-old advice on how to deal with people? (Sarcastic insert, “of course we can!”) These 4 pieces of advice are sometimes called “The 4 Keys”, but this isn’t just a cheesy title like the keys to success or the keys to happiness. These keys are much more about the locks than the keys. Hmmm…… Let’s get started!
The college kid comes home bubbling with excitement over a new boyfriend/girlfriend that you know has all the wrong stuff. The sibling comes over with the exciting news of having started yet another new money-making idea. The in-laws are talking nonstop about a type of child rearing that is working wonders for their family (and also puts your teeth on edge). Enter yoga advice #1: Be happy for those who are happy.
Yoga suggests that we truly underestimate the power of the inner eye roll. The inner eye roll, though seemingly small, puts up a lock. Our person is throwing out beams of joy and, like Wonder Woman, we are blocking it from hitting us.
But why label beams of joy as Worthy or Unworthy? Life is hard and sucky. Why not let the warmth in when it’s offered? Be happy for those who are happy.
Until next time,
Laura
